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Celebrate World AIDS DAY at the International Cross-Border Kiss-In for HIV (on the US/Mexico Border)

As part of our continuing coverage of World AIDS Day 2025, today we visit Friendship Park on the U.S.-Mexico border for the International Cross -Border Kiss-In for HIV organized MPact Global Action. The annual event uses a powerful gesture—public affection—to challenge stigma, demand dignity, and celebrate the lives and agency of queer migrants and people living with HIV. Ths event which is flipping traditional activism on its head by centering queer migrants living with HIV and celebrating their humanity, not just their struggles.

Alex Garner, Director of Community Engagement at MPact, told Queerguru that this work is personal, and deeply political. He believes that when queer migrants living with HIV gather to kiss, to hold hands, or simply to show up unapologetically, they’re making one of the most radical statements of all: We exist, we have agency, and we will not be erased.   Visibility is powerful, but for queer migrants, it’s rarely safe. That’s why, Garner explains, MPact creates spaces where individuals can decide their own level of visibility, their own narrative, and their own form of resistance.

This year, that space looks like a kiss: loud, public, and deeply political. For some, it’s a form of protest. For others, it’s a love letter to their younger selves who were taught to hide. “Joy is an act of rebellion,” Garner shares. “To prioritize our sexuality in these hostile times is a declaration of our humanity.”

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While MPact’s border activism highlights resilience, it also draws attention to harsh and often ignored realities facing detained queer migrants living with HIV. According to Garner, health care in detention is not just inadequate, it’s routinely denied. “People in detention are simply denied access to healthcare. They are completely dehumanized, and there is evidence showing that LGBTQ migrants are vulnerable to physical and sexual assault and their health needs are ignored or not addressed,” he says.

One of the clearest calls he makes is to decriminalize migration altogether. “These are not violent criminals. They are people fleeing violence and discrimination, and seeking to live where they can fully express their sexuality and gender.”

MPact is a community-led gathering created by and for queer migrants living with HIV, exemplifying this shift from advocacy for marginalized people to advocacy by marginalized people.  “It demonstrates that our community exists,” Garner says. “They are willing to speak up and take a stand against homophobia, serophobia, and xenophobia.”Whether through political speech or public affection, these acts reclaim both movement and meaning. When people decide to be visible as queer, or HIV-positive, or migrant, it means they are accepting the risks because they know it will be better for those who come after them,” he says.

Garner has been openly living with HIV for nearly 30 years, but what gives him hope isn’t his own resilience; it’s witnessing new generations take the torch.  And for younger activists? He has one message: Do not lead with fear.

 

 

 


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November 30, 2025

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